Experiment It!

i had an interesting convo wit my bestie tonight about friends and them leaving us cuz cant expect em to be next to us for the rest of our lives...

... then he said something like 'u shud hang out with yourself..its enjoyable!'...

now i've been hearing people saying this to me pretty often lately...a random girl on the bus was telling me how much she preferred goin shopping by herself cuz she had the freedom of goin to any shop she wanted... what does this mean?! is humanity turning into isolated creatures??
im not sure if its a good or bad thing enjoying ur own company..

its good in a sense that u are comfortable with yourself to be enjoying ur own company...ppl say gotta learn to love urself before u can love others... plus u're free to do what u want without worrying about somebody else's wants/needs..

but it culd be bad in the sense that if u feel too comfortable with yourself then u wont wanna hangout with other people and start isolating yourselve from others or somewhre along those lines...

as for me... i dont think i have reached that stage of being comfortable hanging out with my self..YET! i mean there are times i prefer to be left alone to do my own thing...but not in a public place. i have never gone to watch a movie all by myself! i couldnt bring myself to do it... just so weird lah! i dont enjoy shopping alone...maybe eating alone isnt so bad if i have a book with me..

so here's my proposed research to myself and for anyone who wants to try it.

1. Go with bunch of friends and watch a movie together.
2. Pay attention to your feelings, emotions and what you guys do together.
3. Jot it down somewhere (handphone, notebook, etc..) as soon as u can.
4. Then go watch a movie all by yourself. *try not announcin to the world that u r gonna do it*
5. Pay attention to your feelings, thoughts and what you do.
6. Repeat no.3.
7. Reply to this comment / blog about which one u preferred more and why.

*now i know u research crazy ppl will say there are many flaws in this research, no theory to back up la, bla bla bla... lemme say this: its purely for fun! see it as getting 2 knw yrself better or something.. :) *

TheFunTheory

ever heard using a lil sense of fun to help people change?

well if u havent i suggest u watch this vid! this one theory i really like and i think its awesome what we can do with it! :)